No, I think you're probably correct. Consider also that the key difference between a fantasy and a reality lies precisely in the level of control one has over it. It's not unusual for a person to find something appealing in fantasy that they would be uncomfortable with in reality.
Or so I'm told.
Fantasies don't inherently come with the consequences of reducing myself by removing myself. Whereas, in the case of anonymous sex, for example, I think I would ultimately come away from it feeling unfulfilled. My partner would have used me just as much as I used them; I doubt I would enjoy that, after the fact.
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Or so I'm told.
Fantasies don't inherently come with the consequences of reducing myself by removing myself. Whereas, in the case of anonymous sex, for example, I think I would ultimately come away from it feeling unfulfilled. My partner would have used me just as much as I used them; I doubt I would enjoy that, after the fact.